People love to explain away success: "They went to Oxford," or "They didn't go to Oxford," or "They've got connections," or "They're nobodies, so no risk."
Basically, "They're special, and I'm not."
Newsflash: All success is special. That's the point. Nobody hands out trophies for breathing - it's universal.
The real trick? Stop whining about their special sauce and start noticing what ingredients you've already got. You might be closer to your own recipe than you think.